Law of Attraction: Use it Wisely, Not Selfishly

in Mind & Inner Peace,World

I have had unease for a while now, that much of the popular talk about the Law of Attraction seems to be based on self-centeredness.

With this post I hope to prompt more lateral thinking when it comes to the good old Law of Attraction (LOA), and wise, heart-based application of the LOA, for the sake of the world.

Our thoughts are very powerful, hence the power of the Law of Attraction. However, “ego” is also a powerful force. Ego can use the mind to justify almost anything for its own ends – even how the law of attraction should be used.

Why Does It Matter?

My concern is that applying the LOA principles with a narrow perspective can perpetuate many of the negatives in our Western society, such as fear, aversion and selfishness. I feel that often, we are trying to use the LOA to merely polish the edges of our already very privileged lives.

With vague thoughts about writing this post, I was prompted into action by one of the comments I received when I posted this slide show in a forum recently. This presentation of images was voted “Email of the year”, and recipients are urged to spread it far and wide. It shows powerful images of the extent of poverty and suffering in the world, contrasted with images of extreme good fortune, which many of us take for granted. As viewers, we naturally feel a little uncomfortable, as we are not only shown suffering, but it also it pointedly highlights much of our Western discontent and spoilt attitudes – DESPITE the ABUNDANCE we have.

What’s a Dangerous Email?

The comment that reignited my concerns read “Dangerous email”. When I queried this, the reply was that we don’t want to focus on what we don’t want for the world”. Certainly this is a fundamental aspect of the LOA, and I appreciate the gist. However,

at which point does “not focusing on a problem” slip into blissfully and selfishly “keeping your head in the sand”?

Far from focusing on the negatives in the world, I see such a presentation as a powerful vehicle for fostering three vitally needed positive qualities.

These three qualities have the power to change the world:

  • Contentment
  • Gratitude
  • Compassion

Ultimately, greater contentment, gratitude and compassion lead to greater happiness for all. Both science and spirituality alike present strong evidence supporting this. These are the qualities on which we need to focus. They can allow us to apply the Law of Attraction from the heart, and from a non-selfish viewpoint, bringing a compounding positive effect in the world.

So before we avert our eyes for fear of the LOA working in unwanted ways, let’s apply The Law of Attraction wisely. After all, how would any of the wonderful humanitarian triumphs have been achieved without first focusing on the problem itself? As I heard Jack Canfield, LOA expert saying live just yesterday, the LOA doesn’t just magically make things happen, it requires commitment and then real action to change things.

Whilst some people have innate gratitude and are naturally committed to helping those less fortunate, many of us need regular reminders to jolt us out of our own little self-centred existence. To me, the Email of the Year is a wonderful opportunity for that.

Please leave your comments below.

With thanks for your thoughts…..

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Coach Freddie June 25, 2010 at 3:14 pm

Hi Amanda… I agree with you 100% and focusing on what we do want (like helping and serving people) is not focusing on what we don’t. If we help and serve enough people we ultimately get what we want.

Having a big dream and then help and serve people… the Law of Attraction. Jack Canfield has a great book, Key To Living The Law Of Attraction.

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Beatrice June 26, 2010 at 2:35 am

Hi Amanda,
I totally agree with you,Re: “how would any of the wonderful humanitarian triumphs have been achieved without first focusing on the problem itself?
I myself is involved in a charitable organization, where the problem was huge, but nothing could be done about it unless we faced the problem head on, it would never have been solved in we buried our head in the sand. Its when we look at the problem with our hearts that we can then visualize the outcome..
I think people talk about the LOA, yes it is being used in a selfish manner, but like they say the loa doenst know any different, it will give back what you focus on it has no favorites.
Thanks for sharing If people could only take a lesson from this post.. yes it would be a better world…
Regards
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Yvette Zwyssig June 27, 2010 at 10:54 pm

For now Amanda, I will just say that sharing the suffering is far from what I consider true love.
Take action sharing your money, your compasion your love.
The misery could also be around the corner.
The law of attraction It is not about “ignoring” the problem, but focusing in “the solution”. I will like one e-mail sharing lot’s of solutions!… and is not our choice to “use it”…for “good” or “bad”…It is just there.
We all are the same, We all the same Source…
We all take care…
With warm regards: Yvette

Amanda June 29, 2010 at 11:33 am

I like your suggestion Yvette re the email of solutions. I agree that would be very useful and powerful. I don’t think it should be an “either/or” situation with the emails though.

As you say, we need to take action sharing MONEY, COMPASSION and LOVE. My main point is that we often need a PERSPECTIVE check in order for us to even REALIZE that we ARE in a very fortunate situation from which we CAN share our money and love, and often it is only the jolt from suffering (ours or someone else’s) that ignites compassion. If it were naturally there and active all the time in all of us then I would agree, go ahead and cancel the “bad” emails.

Amanda June 29, 2010 at 11:34 am

Thanks Freddie, and I’ll check the book out :)

Amanda June 29, 2010 at 11:36 am

Thanks for your input Beatrice. I would love to hear about the charitable organization you are involved in.

Anne Moore July 27, 2010 at 11:36 am

Hello Amanda
I absolutely agree with you on this one. How can we be compassionate if we don’t see what we need to be compassionate?? The reality is that there are many, many people who do not have the resources to help themselves – no matter how hard they try! I think it is powerful that those of us with a desire to help those less fortunate can come together and as a group really make a difference! That is the LOA at work …… thank you for your inspirational post

Amanda July 27, 2010 at 11:54 am

Thanks for your comment Anne. You might be interested in the book called “The Life You Can Save” or the website of the same name if you haven’t seen it already? Catch you round! :)

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